About Michelle

"For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others." – Nelson Mandela

Beyond Boxes

A Love & Relationship coach that works therapeutically - if you want to put me in a box, may it be that one. A Life & Leadership Designer. A priestess of love, a witch with a tantric heart, a deeply intuitive shadow worker. In other worlds I'm known as an award-winning speaker, international entrepreneur and a communication specialist with a masters degree.

In essence... I won't fit into a singular box. And you don't have to either.

Your fullest expression
I believe that to be the fullest expression of who we are - beyond boxes - and experience an abundance of love, we need to cast off the chains. And so I guide and mentor love-driven souls to liberate themselves from the invisible shackles that keep them from expressing themselves authentically and unapologetically - in life, in love and in work.

Head and heart
I challenge you to merge your head with heart. To allow all of your humanness to become part of the way you show up - for yourself, your partner, your children, your friends. I invite you to relate to ALL parts of yourself – including your sexuality, the source of your joy and vibrancy. By designing your Life in your own way, on your own terms, I hope you will get to to experience a more authentic way of living. A life in which deep, authentic relationships to support you to thrive.

The work I do is experiential, therapeutic, transformative and goes deep; it supports you in rewiring your system, and creating new imprints, so you can solidify your relationship with yourself and others. 

parallax background


  • Relational Life Therapy at Terry Real's Relational Life Institute (current)
  • Polyvagal Theory for Therapists with Deb Dana (2023)
  • Sessions with Esther Perel (learning community for professionals in couples counseling) (2023)
  • Senior Dakini of Temple Arts at Beyond Mystic School (2022-now) and other retreats
  • Shadow Tantrika at School of Erotic Mysteries (2021)
  • Professional Speaking at Professional Speakers Academy 2017-2020 (multiple awards)
  • Tony Robbins UPW (2019)
  • Private Mentoring journey at Sparkwise Academy (2018)
  • Communication & Information Sciences, Masters degree at Radboud University (2004-2008)
Can I support you on your journey?


A Love-Drunk Rebel that Doesn't Fit the Status Quo

If you’re looking for someone fits the status quo, speaks without cussing or shows up looking like she’s just stepped out of a magazine, I can imagine I'm not who you're looking for. However, if you’re looking for a professionally trained speaker who will shake things up lovingly, who will share thought-provoking wisdom and who’s raw but oh so real… then I’m your gal.

Speaking to Serve

My intention is to be in service in everything that I do. When you invite me to speak in front of your audience, I'd be honored to serve them whole-heartedly, sharing wisdom on a professional level, as well as a personal one.

I'm humbled to say I've had the opportunity to speak on various international stages - online and offline - and inspire many souls. All these moments taught me that the thousands of euros I invested in becoming a professional speaker were worth it, but that it all comes down to this in the end: being real.



Connect with me

Is there anything I can support you with? If booking a Discovery Call isn’t the right fit, please send me a virtual note. I’d love to hear from you!