Fulfilled in Love
Relationship Counceling
Fulfilled in Love is a customized, private journey for you and your partner to connect even deeper, or to use potential challenges as a portal towards a more satisfying relationship.
The intention of this journey is to create a new, helpful dynamic between you two, that supports you both individually as well as relationally. You will learn new ways of communicating and being intimate, so you can empower each other every day!
A Sacred Union
Seeing each other in a new light | Communicating more openly | Connecting on a new level
Reviving your Love
Oh how we love to give. And how, how sometimes this leaves us depleted. Perhaps you're both feeling that the balance is a little off. It might've become harder and harder to really find each other - perhaps also in the bedroom. To connect. Perhaps you're not communicating effectively, or you don't feel met in your needs.
The thing is: there's só much goodness too! It doesn't always have to mean there are big problems. There's love, a familiarity. And yet, you're also sensing that there could be more for the both of you. More adventure, more liveliness in love. An opportunity to deepen.
Starting Consciously
Perhaps you're in a new relationship. Everything is still very much alive, long-term dynamics haven't taken over yet, and you're both deeply longing to 'not let it fail this time'. Thank goodness this time it's really different... ;-)
Yes, you know very well that you're bringing yourself to this new relationship. You, with your patterns, quirks, conditioning. What if you'd find a way to relate more consciously and learn new ways to prevent the pain from the past? What if you'd set yourself up for deeper satisfaction and connection from the start?
The aim: A deeper sense of fulfillment in your relationship: Because you're curious to go deeper - not only because there's a 'problem'.
Here's some themes that we could work with
- Stopping patterns such as over-giving, constant conflict or blaming each other
- Understanding how your attachment styles may influence your relationship, especially when there are conflicting needs
- Healing from infidelity
- Getting stronger after a crisis
- Finding your way with structures like monogamy or non-monodamy
- Speaking each other's language more
- Increasing receptivity towards your partner's expression of love
- Taking ownership of your own trauma to enhance the relationship
- Learning how to elevate desire and enhance your sex life (also see 'Sexual Joy' - available for couples too!)
- Learning new ways of connecting physically, emotionally, spiritually
- Learning how to empower each other, instead of focusing on your individual gain
- Getting clear on what you want - as a couple, as well as individually
- Learning how to create safe spaces to communicate constructively
- Learning how to feel and express desires, needs and boundaries
"The quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life."
What can you expect?
Tailored
Fully tailored, not following a model rigidly, yet using potential frameworks if they serve the journey.
Multi-disciplinary
A multi-disciplinary approach that suits your needs: coaching, intimacy practices, communication exercises, tools around conscious relating and sexuality, teachings and examples.
Inspired
Tantra inspired & infused to bring you back to your natural state of being, connecting mind, body, heart and soul. From contraction to expansion.
I'd be honored
...to become a part of your journey. To guide you into the flow of love, as many have said is my purpose and greatest talent. In my 20 years as a communication specialist, personal leadership mentor and Life Designer there's always been one life area I have focused on: relationships and sexuality. And that starts with the relationship you have with you and the different parts of you, as that is the basis to relate with the world around you.
Therapist or coach?
I work as a coach, therapist and educator. From inner child work to creating new imprints, from working towards goals to learning new skills. I dance between different roles, depending on what presents itself. If specific traumas come up that I feel require a specialist, I will always refer you.
Professional Learning
I take pride in always learning and going deeper. I am currently a student of Relational Life Therapy®, developed by family therapist Terry Real. I integrate his modality where I see fit. Esther Perel is another source of inspiration and I've worked with Deb Dana directly on Polyvagal Theory. For all my credentials, please go here.
It takes a lot of Trust
For you and your partner to be guided, supported and held by somebody you don't know that well yet. You're allowing me into one of the most intimate part of your life and I don't take that lightly.
So here's my promise to you.
Choice
Challenge
Check-ins
Complete presence
Talk first?
Working on your relationship could bring things up. And you don't just go about trusting 'anyone'.
So how about we tune in first? Book a free 30-minute consultation. No strings attached.
Intimacy is more than sex.
Even sex is more than sex.
It's about connection, oneness, divinity, dissolving, empowering, healing...
“Wanting to feel connected is a basic human need that we all have. We simply may differ in the way we want to connect. What if we could learn how to speak each other's language more?”
Pricing
Pricing
Shifting a dynamic and learning new skills takes time. It longs for devotion. I happily give you mine.
This is how we can work together:
- Choose whether you want to commit for 3 or 6 months
- We see each other twice a month for 90 minutes for a total of 6 or 12 times
- Your monthly investment: €600
- This includes me being by your side (digitally) the entire time through Whatsapp support
- Possible 1:1 sessions will be invoiced separately
Prices in euros, incl 21% vat for private use or excl vat for business. Invoice provided.
How does it work?
- The first session is our kick-off. We will take a little more time (2-2,5 hours)
- The rest of the sessions are 90 minutes via Zoom or in person, you choose
- I will create a Whatsapp group for us three. Ask your questions and share your need for guidance here! Feel free to contact me individually.
- BONUS: Access to the Relationship toolbox
- BONUS: The extended version of 'The 6 commitments' on communication in relationships
- BONUS: E-book 'Reconnecting to your Archetypes' to remember your wholeness