Sexual Joy
A 1-to-1 customized, private journey for beautiful humans of all genders.
If you feel stuck in your sexuality, or there's a curiosity to discover how you could deepen your connection to your sexual self, this could be the way forward for you.
Over a period of 10 weeks we expand your capacity to really experience Joy in your sexual self.
Curious?
Are you a 'yes'?
We all do it...
Yes, we (almost) all do it. Some with reluctance, some with eager. Sometimes vanilla, sometimes off the charts. But even though we all engage in sexual activity... do we really feel free?
Many people - perhaps even you - still experience some level of (body)shame, guilt, inhibition on the one hand, or a need for validation, a wanting to please or prove oneself on the other hand.
- Am I normal, not to want sex as often as others seem to want it?
- Are my genitals off-putting?
- How will I be able to keep the fire going in my relationship?
... yet we know so little
I have good news for you, though. Yes, you are normal. And you are perfect the way you are. Yet, I also understand that maybe your inhibitions are holding you back in fully feeling your sexual self, and enjoying your sexuality to the max.
I also understand that imprints from (social) media or society have done their work... not in a good way.
If you feel ready to establish a healthy relationship with your own sexuality, so that you can experience nót only more pleasure, but actual Joy... I'd be delighted to support you.
Are you a yes?
Sexual Joy is...
...the rich, exquisite experience of feeling met sexually and wholeheartedly, creating deeply intimate, spiritual experiences that nurture you on all levels.
Customized 1:1 Program for You
This 5-step journey allows you to expand your sexual intelligence, based on where you are in your life. There is a framework, but the details will be adjusted to your needs.
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Preparation: First, we get to know each other through a zoom call, to tune in whether we are a fit.
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Kick-off: When we both feel a 'yes', we will start the journey with a kick-off to get clear on which specific challenges and longings we will focus on.
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Step 1: Reclaiming your sexuality as yours, and yours alone. Rituals, teachings and exercises will be customized to your unique needs.
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Step 2: Rediscovering your body with new curiosity, understanding better what works for you and what doesn't. We bring in science here too!
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Step 3: Reconnecting to your mind, heart, body ánd genitals, and all of its wisdom. This is a deeply healing and liberating part of the journey. It may (or may not) include healing, intimate touch.
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Step 4: Resurrecting the different archetypes within you that give voice to the many expressions of your sexuality.
- Step 5: Rejoicing in your new Sexual Self, celebrating your inner sexual intelligence.
I understand this might sound a little cryptic or vague. Given that I don't know what would fit you yet, and I wouldn't want you to think 'this is not for me', I'm careful with examples.
"Sexual maturity means choosing to express yourself sexually from a place of Leadership rather than your defaults, allowing you to create gratifying sexual experiences that are constructive for all who are involved."
- Michelle Coops
Who is this for?
This is for H U M A N S, in any body, with any gender, who want to re-establish the relationship with their sexual self. You do this for YOU. Yet, it may positively influence your close relationships. Let me give you an idea of the clients I work with.
Men
- Who want to release potential stuckness in their pelvic area and discover new ways of experiencing sexual energy, beyond the default.
- Who are done with the old narrative of what it means to be 'a man' and are ready to give space to all of who they are.
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Who may feel pressure to perform sexually, and wish to learn how to navigate intimacy in a new way, beyond 'goals'.
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Who want to get back in touch with their full sexual self, without being judged for it.
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Want to be seen and met on a deeper level, also sexually.
Women
- Who want to learn how to feel safe and free in their own sexuality, body and interactions again.
- Who want to rekindle their inner fire, and activate Life Force.
- Who long to reconnect to their sensuality and sexuality in a mature way.
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Who may not always have had positive sexual experiences, yet are ready to learn new ways to increase their sexual joy.
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Who want to embrace all of their womanhood in their own, unique way, ignoring clichés around femininity.
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Want to be seen and met on a deeper level, also sexually.
I'm intrigued. Let's meet!
What can you expect?
Tailored
Tailored to your specific quest, with the 5-step framework as a leading force to guide the journey. We always keep tuning in to see if it feels fitting for you.
Multi-disciplinary
A multi-disciplinary approach that includes teachings as well as practices, rituals as well as bodywork, all within consent and boundaries.
Inspired
Tantra-inspired & science-infused to nurture mind, body, heart and soul. We aim for aha-moments in the mind, as well as a delicious buzzy feeling of being into your body.
I'd be honored
...to become a part of your journey. To guide you into the flow of love, as many have said is my purpose and greatest talent. In my 20 years as a communication specialist, personal leadership mentor and Life Designer there's always been one life area I have focused on: relationships and sexuality. And that starts with the relationship you have with YOU. Claiming your sovereignty.
In 2014 I attended my first tantra workshop. In 2019 I dedicated myself to deepen the tantric path. Now, it's a integral part of my life that I feel no need to put a label on. :)
Therapist or coach?
I work as a coach, therapist and educator. From inner child work to creating new imprints, from working towards goals to learning new skills. I dance between different roles, depending on what presents itself. If specific traumas come up that I feel require a specialist, I will always refer you.
Professional Learning
I take pride in always learning and going deeper. I am currently a student of Relational Life Therapy®, developed by family therapist Terry Real. I integrate his modality where I see fit. For all my credentials, please go here.
It takes a lot of Trust
For you to be guided, supported and held by somebody you don't know that well yet. Especially when it comes to such a tender subject! I don't take that lightly.
So here's my promise to you.
Choice
Challenge
Check-ins
Complete presence
Talk first?
Working on yourself could bring things up. And you don't just go about trusting 'anyone'.
So how about we tune in first? Book a free 30-minute consultation. No strings attached.
Become intimate with yourself.
With your heart.
With your sex.
And stay in wonder of each new moment.
“Wanting to feel connected is a basic human need that we all have. The beauty is: connection is omni-present. With ourselves, with our breath, with our heartbeat, and yes... also with people. We can learn the art of staying aware of the everlasting connection to it all.”
Pricing
of the Gift you Give yourself
I'm no ordinary 'coach' who works with you for an hour and sends you home right at the point that you are getting into it. I take more time to go deeper. The length of the sessions reflects that.
What can you choose?
The Core of the program is 5 sessions (3 hours each) over a period of 10 weeks.
The investment is: 2995
Add extra sessions for a reduced rate of 495 each.
Prices in euros, incl 21% vat for private use or excl vat for business. Invoice provided.
What's included?
- 1 online kick-off session
- 5 in-person deep-dive sessions (3 hours each)
- Private WhatsApp or Telegram support 15-30 min a week
- Customized homework to support your journey
- BONUS: Access to the Sexuality Toolbox & Relationship Toolbox
- BONUS: Access to the course Own your Throne