Relationship Coaching that
Inspires you to Lead with Love and Communicate with Care
“The way you carry yourself impacts every relationship in your life. Will you embrace your inner Leader to become your truest Lover?”
The Paradox in our Hearts
We desire to be deeply connected, yet we want to feel free. We want to be ourselves, yet want to be accepted, so we adjust. Our desires pose an almost impossible paradox.
How can we fuse these parts within ourselves, while interacting with others that may mirror and trigger us? How can we be in relationships - especially romantic relationships - without losing ourselves?
The answer lies in developing and maintaining a mature sense of sovereignty while also nurturing the third entity that's present: in any relationship there are at least two individuals and there's a 'we'.
Sovereignty... and Us
You, your lover, and the 'we' wants love, care, attention, nurturing. You all have needs... and sometimes they clash ;). Not to mention all the childhood wounds, patterns, circumstances, habits and relationship dynamics and history that affect your (future) relationship.
What then? How can you find a new way of maturing in yourself and in your relationship(s)? How can you re-meet yourself, so you can meet the other in a new way?
The journey of Love is a journey of Leadership. I'm here to guide you on that journey. Are you in?
What Would You like more of in your Life?
It's one of the the first questions I will ask you. It's the first step towards clarity around what you want to invoke. The answer guides us towards the way of working or modality that may serve you best. This can be a mixture of mentoring, coaching, tantra-inspired practices or even bodywork such as shibari (rope play). I happily support you to...
Can I support you on your journey?
Your body is wise
Will you listen to how it speaks to you?
You may wonder
What can I offer you?
These options are available for individual sessions as well as couple sessions.
Can I support you online? Not everybody has the opportunity to travel as much as they want.
And well, we have tremendous opportunities to do amazing work online.
Even transformative, healing, empowering work... I've been doing it for years and it can be magical when done right.
Let's think in possibilities!
A Love-Drunk Rebel that Doesn't Fit the Status Quo
If you’re looking for someone fits the status quo, speaks without cussing or shows up looking like she’s just stepped out of a magazine, I can imagine I'm not who you're looking for. However, if you’re looking for a professionally trained speaker who will shake things up lovingly, who will share thought-provoking wisdom and who’s raw but oh so real… then I’m your gal.
Speaking to Serve
My intention is to be in service in everything that I do. When you invite me to speak in front of your audience, I'd be honored to serve them whole-heartedly, sharing wisdom on a professional level, as well as a personal one.
I'm humbled to say I've had the opportunity to speak on various international stages - online and offline - and inspire many souls. All these moments taught me that the thousands of euros I invested in becoming a professional speaker were worth it, but that it all comes down to this in the end: being real.
I’d love to inspire your audience
If you want to book me as a speaker, please contact me directly. There’s a speaker’s kit waiting for ya!
Wanna be inspired?
Listen to the Raw, Real and Rebelicious Podcast!
Fuel your Expression
with your Life Force Energy
“There’s tremendous power in expressing yourself fully. You express yourself through words, through how you love, through your way of relating, through your professional being, through your look. The real gold, however, is the energy behind it: your aliveness, your vibrancy, your sexual energy. Reviving this part of your humanness is the most important step towards feeling whole.”
Can I support you on your journey?
“I’d rather be Raw than wasting time waiting for perfection. I’d rather be Real than protected by a layer of fake varnish. I’d rather be Rebelicious than stuck in a boring life that isn’t mine.”
From the disturbing grip of a
Christian cult to a warrioress of love and liberty. People sometimes wonder how these two extremes can meet each other in one lifetime or assume that one has led to another.
When I look back on my childhood, I'm very thankful I consciously learned about healthy sexuality prior to their attempt to brainwash me. In all honesty, the dogma never really got a hold on me.
Regardless of the limitations they imposed, I’ve always kept a deep desire to feel free and live life on my own terms. That did not always come easy; it took (and still takes!) lots of shadow work to lose the fear of judgement, rejection and unsafety.
I believe we all deserve to express freely, to be free. We know that many of us aren’t. Physically, emotionally or mentally.
"For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others." – Nelson Mandela
Life, Love & Leadership Designer: if there's any box I'd fit in, it would be this one.
In some worlds they'd describe me as a priestess of love, a witch with a tantric heart, a deeply intuitive shadow worker. In other worlds I'm known as an award-winning speaker, international entrepreneur and communication specialist with a masters degree.
In essence... I won't fit into a singular box. Neither should you.
Your fullest expression
I believe that to be the fullest expression of who we are - beyond boxes - and experience an abundance of love, we need to cast off the chains. And so I guide and mentor love-driven souls to liberate themselves from the invisible shackles that keep them from expressing themselves authentically and unapologetically - in life, in love and in work.
Head and heart
I challenge you to merge your head with heart. To allow all of your humanness to become part of the way you show up - for yourself, as well as others. I invite you to relate to ALL parts of yourself – including your sexuality, the source of your joy and vibrancy. By designing your Life in your own way, on your own terms, I hope you will get to to experience a more authentic way of living. A life in which deep, authentic relationships to support you to thrive.
Are you deeply longing to Make a Mark as a Leader with your own, unique, Meaningful Message? I invite you to take a look at the Liberated Leadership Intensive... a leadership program for professionals that wish to build their personal brand and make impact.
Connect with me
Is there anything I can support you with? If booking a Discovery Call isn’t the right fit, please send me a virtual note. I’d love to hear from you!
Some Poetry for You
Real nakedness is not about taking off your clothes.
Strip away the bullshit. Look beyond the body.
Peel off all protective layers. Get naked in every way.
Feel the beauty, instead of seeing it.
Understand the wisdom, instead of hearing it.
Know that whatever you’ve told yourself about you, your past, your potential, is only that: stories.
The truth is you’re unlimited.
You’re the embodiment of love.
You’re deserving of joy.
Trust that everything is perfectly imperfect and imperfectly perfect, right in this moment.
Bend, don’t break. Move like water... flowy and elegant.
And most of all.... don’t take it all too seriously.
Laugha little. Laugh a lot. Life’s a playground